Is Forgiving always the right thing to do..?

Question

Is Forgiving always the right thing to do..?
Suppose a dear friend, whom you trusted more than yourself suddenly breaks your trust, does something you had never expected them to do amp leaves you broken hearted.

Answer

Is Forgiving always the right thing to do ? Yes absolutely........ carrying resentment , grudge for someone is known to affect your health. it is not the snake bite that kills the person, but the venom that is released afterwards is fatal. dont let the snake bite of another person release any venom inside of you. we dont have control over what other people do to us.....but we can surely control how we react to the way others treat us, better forgive himher.brbrBut I surely wont forget..... this guygirl is setting a dangerous precedent, what is the guarantee that once you accept himher again in your life, heshe wont break your trust ? you are talking about a dear friend .........if a dear friend breaks your trust, then heshe wasnt that dear to begin with......I know to err is human, but that is precisely the reason why you should maintain a distance from himher, it is likely that heshe will break your trust again and leave you in pain and broken hearted. brbrSo forgive......but dont forget , learn from this experience and grow wiser. No matter how hard you try..... things can never be the same......unless you completely forget what heshe has done to you, but that would be carelessness and stupidity on your part.....because then you are once again vulnerable to himher breaking your trust.brbrBut then people are very emotional and rarely logical......especially in dealing with friends , they tend to think more from the heart than their brain. logic says person has broken your trust in past......he might do such a thing again, so better stay away from himher, heart says let us give himher another chance........it depends entirely upon YOU...... do you think more from your heart or are you ruthless when dealing with such kind of people ? choice is yours , make it and then learn to live with it.